(Shouldn’t you announce your goals, so friends can support you?)
When dealing with identity goals — that is, the aspirations that define who we are — sharing our intentions doesn’t necessarily motivate achievement.
On the contrary, a series of experiments shows that when others take notice of our plans, performance is compromised because we gain “a premature sense of completeness” about the goal.
Here’s Why You Should Keep Your Goals To Yourself
by Dharam Barrett
https://iheartintelligence.com/keeping-goals-secret/
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「やりたいことを人に話して、やらないとカッコ悪いから、やってしまう」というやり方はダメなのかな?
それぞれに合ったやり方や考え方が一番いいと思うのだけれど。